Solo Hiking

“Of all the paths you take in life, make sure some of them are dirt.” -John Muir

Cathedral Gorge State Park

I decided once again to do the #52hikechallenge for 2022. I thoroughly emjoyed the hikes last year, so it just made sense to do it yet again. My friend and I decided to do it again together, or at least as many hikes as we could together. With work and life, we just can’t always make the weekly hikes together. For the very first time in my life, I did a solo hike. I made sure it was just a short little one miler for my very first one.

Things I realized…

I’m not a huge fan of hiking alone.

I did enjoy the solitude of hiking alone.

I’m going to try some other hikes alone before I compeletly give up.

Hiking alone was way out of my comfort zone.

While I learned all these things, I also had a good time. Was I scared even though it was just a one mile hike? Yes. Was I proud of myself for getting out there and doing a solo hike to keep up on my challenge? You betcha. Will I do it again? Yes. Will I still be scared? More than likely. That’s the point though right? I’m trying to do things to get myself out of my comfort zone. This was definitely one of them.

My Plan is to continue to learn about the art of solo hiking so I have better tips and tricks to not be so nervous and to make sure I keep myself safe. I never would’ve been able to see these views if I hadn’t stepped out of my comfort zone.

52 Hike Challenge 2021…

“Look deep into nature, and you will understand everything better”

-Albert Einstein

Snow Canyon State Park, Ivins, Utah

Well hello!!! I was so gung ho about blogging, then, well you know. Covid happened. So much has changed in my life because of the pandemic (I’m sure I’ll get to that at some point).

Last year was a total bust on getting out and DOING things for myself. This year I have been focusing on INTENTIONS. I decided at the end of 2020 that I was going to start a 52 Hike Challenge. I actually signed up online with my friend Amanda for the #52hikechallenge. I had signed up in 2018, but I never actually finished…or even really started the challenge. By enlisting Amanda, I knew I would actually reach my goal this year. There’s no way she’d let me back out! Everyone needs a friend like Amanda!

We’re a little behind on our weekly hiking. Our work schedules have changed now that it’s summer, and let’s be honest. I live in Southern Utah, and we’re in the middle of a heat wave. In the desert. In the middle of a drought. We knew we would be a little behind.

The picture is actually from our very first hike this year. A hike we’ve lovingly dubbed, the PTSD hike. We were very unprepared, out of shape, and quite frankly…we were terrified we’d get stuck in the canyon with no service, in the dark. We hadn’t brought enough food, or water. It was also pretty chilly at times, because it was January. We’ve learned SO much from this hike, things not to do, things we needed to do better, and so forth. We’ve actually added to our hiking gear, and have become better hikers as the year has progressed. This challenge has been really good for me. I’ve had to get over my fears and out of my comfort zone, while also having the time of my life. I’ve seen some really beautiful places, I never even knew existed, and I grew up in the area.

Now that I am jumping back on the blogging train…expect more posts about my hiking adventures. Hiking is my happy place. I love the rush it gives me and the sence of accomplishment I have when I am able to finish a long hike. It’s been fun to see how I’ve gotten better and more confident in my abilities to hike. Here’s to getting back on track with this challenge. I need more hiking in my life! A hiking mom is a happy mom!

Hey friends! Join me on the #52hikechallenge. Use my referral code to get a special discount! Please note, for every referral code used I get a discount from their store. Also…you can sign up for FREE. I personally signed up for one of the programs. My code is http://52hikechallenge.refr.cc/melissastewart Happy Hiking ya’ll!!!

Covid-19 Pandemic 2020

To be fair, I picked this one up from a friend and modified it slightly.

Just so I NEVER forget…Today is April 14, 2020.

The price of gas within a mile from home is $1.99

Social-distancing/self-isolation measures are on the rise. There were no gatherings of 100 or more initially, then 50 or more, then 20 or more, now 10 or more – all within less than a week.

Schools are cancelled – March 13th to May 4th (so far) and online classes started for my son, and paper worksheets for my daughter. Both have weekly Zoom calls with their teachers and classmates.

Proms are graduations are cancelled.

There is tape on the floors at grocery stores, gas stations, liquor stores, and other places to help distance shoppers at least six feet from each other.

There are a limited number of people allowed inside stores so lines are outside the doors until an employee allows you in.

Non-essential stores and businesses have been mandated to close. Restaurant lobbies have all been closed, but do have takeout and delivery available.

Parks, trails, and entire cities are locked up.

Entire sports seasons are cancelled including basketball (which was the first to cancel because a Utah Jazz player tested positive), hockey, and baseball, to name a few.

Concerts, 😭 tours, festivals, and entertainment events have been cancelled or postponed.

Weddings, birthdays, family celebrations, holiday gatherings – all cancelled or postponed.

All churches are closed.

Funerals – no more than 10 people can attend.

Some mothers are having to birth at hospitals alone. (But many are deciding to birth at home)

We are not socializing with anyone outside of our homes. Most employees are working from home, but many are not able to work at all. Unemployment filing is over 6 million.

Outdoor play parks/school playgrounds are closed and roped off with “crime scene” caution tape.

There is a shortage of masks, gowns, and gloves for our first responders and care center and hospital workers. There is a shortage of ventilators for the critically ill.

Panic buying set in right away. There is no toilet paper, disinfecting supplies, paper towels, laundry soap, hand sanitizer, and staple foods like flour, sugar, and canned goods. Senior citizens have special shopping hours to ensure they get what they need. Many shelves are bare.

Manufacturers, distilleries, and other businesses have changed their production lines to make hospital personal protective equipment (PPE), visors, masks, and hand sanitizer. 3D printing companies and individuals are making medical PPE for hospitals.

The government has closed all borders to non-essential travel and interstate travel is closed to all non-essential workers.

Fines have been established for breaking the rules. Here in Utah that order was cancelled within 24 hours, but it stands in many states.

Cruise & military ships, stadiums, and recreation facilities have opened up for the overflow of Covid-19 patients.

Press conferences are held daily by President Trump. There are updates multiple times per day on new cases, recoveries, and deaths. Domo has established a website that updates worldwide down to county statistics every 10-15 minutes.

Government incentives to stay home have been established.

There is barely anyone on the roads, even during rush hours. The Las Vegas strip looks like a ghost town and major cities, especially Salt Lake City (during the worst time for the inversion), have clear, crisp air surrounding them.

People are wearing masks and gloves outside when they do have to venture out.

Essential service workers are terrified to go to work.

Medical field workers are afraid to go home to their families. Many are sleeping at their workplace as to not get their family members sick.

This is the Novel Coronavirus (Covid-19) Pandemic, declared March 11th, 2020.

Why, you ask, do I write this?

One day it will show up in my memory feed and it will be a yearly reminder not only of what our reality is, but that life is precious and not to take the things we dearly love for granted.

There has been so much beauty through this as well. The creativity seen in memes, karaoke groups, parodies, singing from the balconies, neighborhood Zumba groups from backyards, virtual choirs and symphonies, and entire cities singing and applauding to celebrate healthcare workers has been overwhelming to witness.

We have so much!

Be thankful. Be grateful.

Be kind to each other, love one another, and support everyone.

We are all one! ❤️

It Must Be February

My Favorite Go to Drink when I’m Sick…Hot Water, Lemon, and Honey!

It must be February. I’m grateful that I haven’t gotten super sick in a long time. About a year to be exact. I don’t know what it is about the end of January, first part of February, but almost every year I get a horrible sore throat. Last year it was a bad case of Strep. This year? Well the jury is still out on what’s going on with me! I went to work two weeks ago with a sore throat. I didn’t have a fever. The only thing wrong with me was my throat. I thought maybe it was allergies, so I donned my mask and went about my day. I got home late from work and my throat felt worse. I woke up in the middle of the night with my throat on fire. Felt like I was swallowing a fire poker. My work offers Teledoc through our insurance, so I figured, it was worth the $45 to set up a call with a doctor. Within an hour I was on the phone with one of their doctors. She was very helpful. Did you know that you can actually buy Rapid Strep A tests on Amazon?! This was defintely news to me! She thought it was viral. Advised me to get a Strep test just in case, and told me to get a nose spray and some allegry pills. If the test came back positive I was suppose to call back and they would call me in a perscription. She called in a perscription for a lidocaine gargle for my throat. Not a fan. Was so thick I couldn’t get it to gargle, so I ended up choking on the medicine and then puking. Not fun when your throat is already on fire. Nothing was seeming to help. I tried everything. My favorite go to has definitely been hot water, with lemon and honey. My sore throat turned out to not be strep and was viral, just like the Teledoc doctor said. The sore throat is gone, but this cough is still lingering on. Looks like I’ll be drinking more hot tea. Perfect on this cold winter night.

Daily Reminders…

I don’t know about you, but I need to give myself daily reminders. Things that I need to work on, or want to remember. These reminders are based on what I am going through and dealing with at the time. Today’s reminder was this, “The only person who is going to give you security and the life you want is you.” Going from being a Stay at Home Mom, to a single mom, who works full time, has been quite the change for me. It’s been an extremely difficult challenge. It’s also been one of the best things for me. This new stage of my life has forced me to come out of my comfort zone, and realize that I indeed can do hard things. Do I wish more than anything that I could be a SAHM again? Absolutely. I am the only one that can give myself the security and the life that I want; therefore, I will continue to focus on what I can do to better achieve my own personal goals to better the life of myself and my children. My goals won’t be achieved overnight. They will take hard work. I have learned one thing about my challenges…I still have a beautiful life and I am grateful for everything that I have gained and learned through these challenges.

Everything You Want Is On The Other Side of Fear.

Carlsbad State Beach, California

Everything I wanted for the life of my kids and I was on the other side of my fear. And thus, a blog is born.

When I first separated from my now ex-husband, over four years ago, I made a promise to myself that I would come out of my comfort zone. That I would overcome my fears and create a new life for my kids and I. I made several goals. One such goal was to take my kids somewhere new every year, by myself. I had NEVER gone on vacation by myself with my kids. Sure I had taken them by myself to see family a few hours away, but the drive was familiar and one I’d done uncountable times. I never felt all alone either, because we were with family. Taking my kids by myself to Disneyland?! The old me thought that was plain crazy. Not anymore. We’ve now gone multiple times. Does it scare me to take my kids on vacation by myself? Absolutely. Have I gotten upset, yelled, and more than one of us have cried? You betcha. Will I keep doing it? Absolutely. We’ve gone on some memorable vacations together, just the three of us. Places I never would’ve dreamed of going by myself with my kids.

Four years later and thousands of pictures of our adventures and I am amazed at what we’ve done together, and all the fun, new places we’ve gone. I never would’ve been able to do all this if I had stayed hidden behind my fear.

Coming out of my comfort zone has always been really hard for me. Man. Have I had such a love hate relationship with trying to overcome my fears! It’s been scary, and beautiful all at the same time. Join me, as I continue to navigate life as a single mom, trying to come out of my comfort zone, and creating the life for my kids and I that I’ve always wanted. I’m excited about this next stage of my life.